For some reason this popped into my head last week, and I wanted to write a bit about it.
Faking.
You know…faking “it” for your partner. The Big O. *
There seem to be two schools of thought on this topic.
The first is that it’s important to be honest with your partner, and that since faking an orgasm is dishonest, then it’s simply not acceptable. Also, there’s the idea that how is he going to learn to please you better if you fake it? Shouldn’t your partner be understanding enough to know that sometimes you’re simply not going to have an orgasm, and well, there’s nothing wrong with that? I don’t think that I’m alone in saying that the “Big O” isn’t necessary every single time for sex to be enjoyable. Sometimes it’s just nice to be close to your partner in a physical way.
The second school of thought is that there are times (and you ladies know what I’m talking about) when you know that, for whatever reason, it’s simply not going to happen. It’s not that he’s doing anything particularly wrong..but maybe you’ve got too much going on in your brain, you can’t relax, or whatever. The people in this camp think that there’s nothing wrong with a little enthusiastic faking of an orgasm so as not to crush your partner’s male ego. They look at it as a “little white lie”, that as long as it doesn’t happen very often, doesn’t really hurt anyone.
So I’m curious to hear what everyone thinks on this one.
Ladies: Have you ever faked it? Do you still fake it now and again, or do you believe in being honest with your partner?
Guys: Tell me, would it bother you knowing that your woman has faked it from time to time? Would you prefer honesty, or are you okay with the occasional little white lie?
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* Oh – and for clarification, CBG, no, I’m not going anywhere with this one…it’s just something I was thinking about….heh.
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Single Parent Bloggers Rock;
CBG and I had another great couple of days together.
For now, however, I am willing to accept where things are in this moment. I have a man who absolutely adores me….someone who listens to me without judgment. Someone who has seen me at my absolute worst, and loves me anyhow. A man who is able to be completely emotionally vulnerable with me. A man who is willing to put up with all the obstacles that we face, just to be with me.
I went to parent-teacher yesterday and sat down with Kiddo’s two teachers (they share teaching the class).
Hm. I guess I’ve been educating her in more ways that one…..




